Hello Everyone,

My blog posts and videos are usually inspired by what I encounter in my readings with all of you. I am always trying to find helpful tips to share with you, and anything I can do to keep you from being taken advantage of is a big plus in my book.

In the past month I have given readings to many people who seem to feel that it is a important to share every single detail of there lives with me before I read from them. There are many reasons why this is a really bad idea, okay actually there are only two.

Before I go into tha let me give you an example of what I mean,

” Hi, my name is Susie. I have been seeing this guy (Nick) for the past two years. At first things went really well and we were very close. Over the last four months he has been acting weird. He is stressed out about his job, and feeling taken advantage of by his boss Rob. Anyway I feel like he is being distant and I’m not sure what is going to happen with us. Oh, also he is talking a lot with this girl from his job. Her name is Kim. Should I be worried about that?”

Okay so do you guy’s see the problem with this ? When you are getting a reading from a psychic you want to get information that is actually eh, psychic. When you lay out the whole story you aren’t letting the psychic do their job.

So the first reason why this is bad is because all of this info can cloud a psychic from feeling genuine intuition about the situation. I’m sure when you read the paragraph you had an impression about the situation yourself. Based on our psychology as humans, and past experiences we are prone to make judgements when hearing a story about other peoples lives.

You will have no way of knowing if what they are saying is based on what you told them, or if they are truly feeling something. They may not know either.

The second thing is a bit worse. Some people pretend to be psychics.They look for every opportunity to get your money. The above story is the equivalent to giving somebody your pin number.

Here are some examples of how to ask questions

• I’d like a reading about me and my boyfriend.
• Can you read my boyfriend’s career?

Your psychic may need some info to tune into the situation for you like names or birthdays, this is normal. Be aware also if they start asking you questions. Basically you should expect the psychic to useful accurate information without being told, or asking too much.

I hope you found this helpful <3

Jen